PROFESSIONAL MATCHMAKER FAQ
Welcome! If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to work with a Professional Matchmaker, you’re in the right place. Below are the most common questions we get from singles who are ready for something real (and done playing swipe roulette).
Whether you’re new to matchmaking or just curious about how it all works, this FAQ will give you a peek behind the curtain — think of it as your cheat sheet to finding love with a little expert help.
Matchmaking FAQ – Work with a Professional Matchmaker
What does a Professional Matchmaker do?
Think of a Professional Matchmaker as part dating coach, part wingwoman, part love nerd. I don’t just throw random dates your way — I take time to really get to know you: your vibe, your values, what’s worked (and what hasn’t) in your past relationships. Then, I handpick matches who actually align with what you’re looking for. It’s kind of like having a best friend who’s obsessed with helping you find your person — and happens to be really good at it.
How is this different from dating apps?
Oh, the endless swiping… exhausting, right? With a Professional Matchmaker, you skip the games and guesswork. No algorithms, no ghosting, no “hey” messages from someone who clearly didn’t read your profile. Instead, you get curated introductions, real feedback, and personalized support every step of the way.
Who hires a Professional Matchmaker?
People who are serious about finding love — and ready to invest in it. Most clients are successful, busy professionals who don’t have time to waste. They’re usually tired of casual dating and want real connections. They’re typically emotionally ready for a relationship and open to expert guidance.
What’s the process like?
It starts with a 1:1 consultation where we dive into your relationship history, preferences, and goals. Then, as your Professional Matchmaker, I go to work — vetting potential matches, making personalized introductions, and offering dating coaching along the way. We check in after each date to fine-tune and support your journey.
How do you match people?
Great question — it’s a mix of intuition, experience, and a whole lot of heart. I work as a Professional Matchmaker with Three Day Rule, a premium matchmaking company that’s known for its personalized approach and amazing team. We get to know our clients on a deep level — beyond just a checklist — and match based on core values, lifestyle, chemistry, and long-term compatibility.
It’s not about throwing spaghetti at the wall (like dating apps do). It’s thoughtful, strategic, and tailored — kind of like setting up a friend you really care about.
How long does it take to find a match?
That depends on a few things: your openness, how specific your preferences are, and of course, timing. Some clients meet someone amazing within a few months; for others, it takes longer. We aim to connect you with a match at least once a month.
Do you coach clients too?
Absolutely! Dating and relationship coaching is a huge part of the process. Even the most successful people sometimes hit blocks when it comes to dating — limiting beliefs, fear of vulnerability, or just plain burnout. I have practical tools, mindset shifts, and honest feedback under my belt to help you show up as your best self.
Is matchmaking only for rich people?
Nope — not at all. While working one-on-one with a Professional Matchmaker is a paid service, anyone can join the matchmaking pool for free and be considered as a match for paying clients. It’s a great way to get in the mix without a big investment.
What’s the success rate of matchmaking?
Success looks different for everyone, but many clients find a meaningful relationship within a few months of working with a Professional Matchmaker. The key is openness, communication, and a willingness to grow. Matchmaking isn’t magic — it’s a personalized, intentional process that works best when we’re a team.
How do I get started?
Super easy — just take the first step! You can create your free profile at Three Day Rule (it only takes a few minutes), and from there, you can schedule a quick informational call with me. We’ll chat about what you’re looking for, where you’ve been getting stuck, and whether matchmaking is the right fit. No pressure, no awkward vibes — just a real conversation with a Professional Matchmaker who’s here to help